Writing on men's growth, healing, and dating & relationships

Writing on Men's Transformation

Thoughts on men, transformation, relationships, and what it actually means to live.

Coaching Hundreds of Men Taught Me This

After coaching hundreds of men the common issues I see are self-expression, career stagnation, low relationship satisfaction, and physical development. All of these are reflections of lack of self-love.

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The Ice Cream Drop: Real Feelings vs. Collapse Patterns

There is a certain way to feel that is actually a collapse pattern pretending to be your feelings. Like a small child dropping their ice cream.

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Steps Into Intimacy in Relationship

Intimacy is sharing a nervous system: two bodies, one feeling system. What follows is a progression from Meeting to Sharing Spirituality — what can be called True Union.

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Love Your Role

Intimacy is sharing a nervous system: two bodies, one feeling system.

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Intimacy Equals Change

Everyone shows up in relationship in ways that must change to increase intimacy and connection.

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You Have Never Had a Better Incentive

Seeing opportunity and feeling the opportunity unlocks hidden energy within. Low self-esteem, lack of self-belief, and the need for self-love tie into our relationship to change — and you have never had a better incentive to shift these inner realities and orient towards success.

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